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Mo - 2004-12-14 16:52:15
Big twinkles, bordering on jazz hand moose ears!!!
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Ang - 2004-12-14 17:02:02
Sometimes it wouldnt hurt to drop a line to say hi and let that person know that things are alright but you're busy.
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hissandtell - 2004-12-14 17:07:47
YES! If I haven't got in touch with them, people should NOT leave me messages saying, "Have I done something to upset you?". They should NOT phone my friends (or my sister, or my mother) and say, "Is R all right? I'm worried because I haven't heard from her." I mean, I appreciate their concern as much as the next person, but I'm just not going to get back to them if I don't have the time. And of course I still love them anyway. Love, R xxx
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Ro - 2004-12-14 17:22:08
Thanks for the response. Ang, I understand how you feel. You are actually one of my most long-suffering friends, so you are exempt. :)
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LR - 2004-12-14 17:25:16
Pick me! Pick me! Hey, you don't even know me but shucks...are you mad at me? I mean, you've NEVER called...
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Ang - 2004-12-14 17:29:05
Woo hoo I have senority! I know that you don't mean it that's why I don't go psycho on yah bitch ass! Just try to keep it real yo! LOL
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Ahnalyse - 2004-12-15 00:43:49
I feel ya gurl...completely understand! People do it to me too, if it makes you feel any better....
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Ev - 2004-12-15 03:40:12
I guess the real question is what are the important things in life. And why is it that we know the things we want in life, but fear taking chances to have them.
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Ro - 2004-12-15 09:18:42
I really don't think it has much to do with fearing to take chances, Ev. It's more to do with survival at this point. I hear ya about remembering that friends are important, though.
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Fae - 2004-12-15 09:29:41
No worries.... I know you're busy, and I get crazy-busy, too. I'll be here when you have room to breathe again.
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jon - 2004-12-15 09:32:04
well, you know i agree. <:)
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Ev - 2004-12-15 21:05:55
Sorry wasn't really saying the fear thing to anyone...just mainly myself
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Roxy - 2004-12-16 00:41:23
I totally understand this! It comes up fairly quick in my romantic relationships.. usually I let the other person get pissed, and I give them the 'take it or leave it, this means I'm simply busy' leaving them with the assumption that their too damn demanding. Don't feel alone, cuz you're not! Let them do the contacting every once in awhile, and don't let 'em guilt trip you about it. It is OKAY to have a life.
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