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Ang - 2004-08-12 10:41:16
Call me if you ever feel like talking. Be nice to hear your voice
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Roxy - 2004-08-12 15:46:33
Was he spontaneously affectionate during your year in DeKalb? If not.. I'd say you're mistakenly expecting him to change, that marriage would change him. I'm not sure what to tell ya, girl. Hopefully your spontaneous affections for him will teach him to surprise you spontaneously in kind. Regardless, it's a slow process to work that into the relationship. I wish you the best.
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Rowan - 2004-08-12 23:12:18
Well, regardless of what the expectation is, it isn't working the way it is now. I am not hesitant to say that mistakes were made. I just don't believe in punishing myself by living in the mistakes forever, especially when there is no progress, no sign of progress, no want to work on things from his point of view. Having said that, thanks for your input.
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Ang - 2004-08-12 23:44:18
There is a saying that Shawn has about marriage and I think it is very true "Women get married hoping the men will change, men get married hoping the women doesnt"
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